Tell me about a time you handled conflict on a team.
Why it's asked: The interviewer is testing whether you address problems directly and keep the working relationship intact.
- Situation
- Two engineers on my project disagreed on the data model, and reviews had stalled for a week before a client demo.
- Task
- As project lead, I had to get to a decision within two days without either person disengaging.
- Action
- I met each of them separately to separate the technical argument from the frustration, then ran a 45-minute session where each presented trade-offs against three agreed criteria — migration cost, query performance and delivery date. I made the call, documented the reasoning, and gave the dissenting approach a scoped follow-up spike.
- Result
- We shipped the demo on time, the spike later improved one query path, and both engineers stayed on the team through delivery.